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Episode #007: Marina Passalaris from Beautiful Minds about being beautiful inside and out

Posted:May 2nd, 2012

Welcome to episode seven of our podcast series!

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Today’s guest is Marina Passalaris, founder of teen program Beautiful Minds. Starting  7 years ago in Queensland she has educated over 1,000 girls.  Beautiful Minds is no ordinary grooming course, as Marina Passalaris (Director) and her team of professional trainers, educate young girls on a number of subjects like, public speaking, confidence, first impressions, remembering names, leadership skills, make up artistry, self esteem, hair styling, body issues, drug and alcohol abuse, bullying, friendships and relationships, setting up boundaries, music therapy, social etiquette, resume writing, money skills and budgeting, wardrobe styling and fashion, photo shoot, social media etiquette and more….


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Featured 10thousandgirl guest: Marina Passalaris

Marina has over 10 years experience in the entertainment industry as both a makeup artist,grooming and deportment educator and well known events organiser and host. Having worked in the industry in Australia and overseas, Marina has a wealth of knowledge in the grooming field.

Beautiful Minds is a life changing grooming, etiquette and life skills course for teenage girls. The course increases girl’s confidence, self-esteem and leadership skills.


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With or Without

Posted:April 10th, 2012

By Mel Rodgers

My house has running water; cold, undrinkable, straight from the Mekong River. I have been wearing the same weeks’ worth of clothes for 9 months now, which I hand-wash in a bucket. Electricity is intermittent. The toilet must be flushed manually. The average temperature most days is 40°C, and my house has a single fan. Bats, geckos, and spiders call my kitchen home. There are no shopping malls, no cinemas, no gyms, and no swimming pools (unless you count the Mekong, with the parasites and sewage that call it home). There isn’t even a supermarket.

Believe it or not though, my house in town is luxury compared to our digs in the field. I sleep in a hammock under the stars. There is no running water. No toilet. No plumbing. No sanitation. No electricity. Chickens, buffalo, and children meander around these rubbish-strewn villages. Breakfast is fish and rice. Lunch is rice and fish. Dinner is, surprise surprise, fish and rice.

I live in a province in Cambodia that practically no one has heard of, which is about 4 hours from the capital. That is, if the mini-bus (which is supposed to seat 14 people but generally has at least 20 squeezed in) doesn’t break down. I’m a relatively easy-going girl; I rarely wear makeup, my dress sense could only ever be described as practical, I like camping, and the best compliment I ever received was from a colleague who once described me as ‘a good sport’. I never thought that I’d struggle to ‘go without’ over here, but then I never knew what it was that I would be missing out on.

Given cultural barriers (and my poor language skills) I have not been lucky enough to form close friendship with any locals. Sure, we chat, but it isn’t the same as having a real, meaningful conversation. There have been evenings when I’ve found myself starting at the ceiling, wishing I had someone to talk to. Loneliness is tough. I have gone days without having anyone to talk to, days in which I have driven myself crazy by being stuck inside my own head.

I miss home; but I don’t want to go home because life will be easier there. It isn’t the soy lattes, hot showers, or supermarkets that have me fantasizing about living back in Australia. It isn’t the visits to my hairdresser, or the option of buying a new dress. It isn’t the latest film or concert.

It is my friends. I can’t live without human contact. I can’t live without the sister who believes in me, even when I’ve given up on myself. Or the girlfriend who candidly tells me I’m insane for caring, but still listens when I talk about him. Or the mate I can always rely on to read my stories and talk about books. These are the people who keep my world spinning; give me friends over luxury any day.

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What are your needs versus your wants?

Posted:April 2nd, 2012

Your journey towards financial independence is an empowering, yet sometimes challenging one. We can do a lot NOW in order to have a greater impact on our financial future, but it may mean changing some of our current spending habits so that we create the financial means to make our goals happen.

Enter, the good ole battle between Needs and Wants…

One of the biggest things we encourage at 10thousangirl, after becoming clear on what your personal life goals are, is budgeting (AKA creating a Spending Plan). This is becoming aware of how we spend our money, if we actually spend less than we earn and then looking at what we can do with the difference (then we could also implement a few strategies to spend less and save more!).

For example, you may have a longer term goal to owning your own home. One of the smaller steps towards that would be to save for a deposit in a certain time frame. This would probably mean saving more than you currently are through either increasing your income and/or decreasing your spending.

Identifying and understanding needs and wants becomes very important when looking at decreasing your spending.

What are needs? Generally they are the essentials we need to have to survive. These fall into four areas – food, shelter, clothing and love. Some job and other living related expenses may be needs as well such as transportation and electricity. Does this then mean we can justify all the money that we spend on our needs? Unfortunately…no.

In this day and age, we often don’t just need to survive – we also want to thrive. We have a grand scale of options in the areas of food, shelter and clothing to choose from. While we need clothes to keep us protected from the elements, do we need a new dress every other month that costs $200? Most of us have enough clothes in our closet to keep us going for a long time without the need to restock (be honest with yourself!). While we need to have food to keep us going through the day, do we NEED a $7.50 sandwich? Start having a look at how you spend and ask yourself if what you are buying is to satisfy basic needs or ‘luxury’ needs.

What are wants? These are the things that would be nice to have but aren’t essential for our survival such as gadgets to play with, overseas holidays, expensive haircuts and going to the movies. A lot of the Wants we buy we are aware of being wants, but many others of them are habitual parts of our everyday – the lattes, the magazines, the manicures and the expensive gifts for mum – that we have made them seem like necessities. Ask yourself whether you ‘need’ all of these wants all the time? Bringing awareness to these areas may be enough to start creating some changes.

If you can keep in mind the big picture of why (your INSPIRE goal), you can make many adjustments to your current spending. My life at the moment is an experiment into happily simplified living. As I’ve started a new business and am saving for the things that come with it I’ve cut down in a lot of areas and tried to tackle cutting my spending as a fun project. For example, presents for friends and family are now crafted projects. I made calendars for my parents’ Christmas gifts, written thoughtful stories/cards for friends and brought homemade cupcakes instead of storebought conveniences for dinners. I’ve gone on wine-filled (I’ll admit that I may have decanted a cask wine into a bottle for convenience…) picnics instead of restaurant dinners with friends and enjoyed big talk-while-we-walk excursions instead of boozy afternoons in the pub. I’ve bought generic brands over private ones, bought less books and stationary and caught the bus home rather than a taxi at 11pm at night. All these things have added up to make a big difference in my wallet and I’ve realised how unnecessary some of my Wants were.

Yes, I might have missed out on weekends away to wine country and dinner at a ‘Hatted’ restaurant, but I am comfortable with that because I know why I said no and that reason means more to me in the long-run than a couple of days away or a nice meal…

So, how do you bring the idea of Needs and Wants into actually affecting your bottom line?

Every time you go and reach for your wallet ask yourself if what you are planning to purchase is a need or a want. Stick a post-it on your wallet asking you that question as a reminder. Play around with this idea for the next month. You can do anything for a short time. See if it makes a difference in the amount you are spending. If it does perhaps choose to continue this so you move closer to some of your goals faster!

Let us know how it goes!

Arienne is 10thousandgirl’s content manager and has recently started a business – commencing with affordable life coaching – stemming out of her blog Savvy Sassy She (website to come!). She has gotten much more familiar with her Needs and Wants thereby drastically cutting down on her spending so she can bring her business dreams to fruition sooner!

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